Monday, March 5, 2007
Once a cheater always a cheater?
Is the old saying once a cheater always a cheater true??? The link above is about a couple people who have described their own views on cheating, and if that old saying is true. My personal opinion is very torn, for many different reasons. If a person can cheat once, they can cheat twice, and they will. I really honestly feel like the only exception is that people can make mistakes once, and if they truly do everything in their power to make up for it, admitting to the truth, changing their lifestyle, etc. , they won't cheat again. But... if these things aren't done, they become an addict of cheating. And it doesn't stop at just one relationship, it affects all of them thereafter. My best advice to anyone out there that knows their "partner" has been a previous cheater... get out of the relationship. I know it's hard, but you probably deserve better. Or if both you and your partner arer cheaters, I guess it all works out okay. For the honest ones, find an honest person that will treat you right! Because you deserve it!
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I go back and forth with this question.. I don't really know if the old saying is true or not. I've been cheated on- I absolutely hate the feeling and no one deserves that feeling.
This is a subject that i'm sure everyone will always argue over. I agree with your side of the story, but then again...people can learn...it's really hard to say!
i'm not positive myself on the answer. i know that everyone is different-some have a strong will power and if they've cheated before and wish to stop, most likely they can. but for those who repeatedly do it, they will do it forever even though they know it's wrong. so i'll just stick with it all depends on that person.
In experiences I have seen... cheaters are usually always cheaters... in particular if they stay in the same relationship they cheated in because you took them back and told them "it was ok" to have done what they did. I'm not sure otherwise, maybe once you are with the right person you CAN change. I think more research should be done on this topic--it's definately an interesting one!
-Casey
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